Tommy was a kind, non judgmental, honest, and a very funny person. I never knew what to expect with Tommy, there was never a dull moment. He was always entertaining me with his conversations and actions. Tommy had a wild imagination and could solve any problem. In his life he worked very hard at his job and at home. He spent most of his time outside enjoying nature. He loved his pineapple plants, hibiscus flowers and had the most beautiful well groomed yard. He was a party person no matter how he was feeling that day. He never complained about anything. He liked to drink his beer and to barbeque for everyone. He was the entertainment. His man cave was his sanctuary. He would spend hours in his man cave with his buddies John Crouse and Kevin Miller. Tommy and my mother would have happy hour in the man cave each afternoon. They would try to solve all the worlds problems. He would always say "what happens in the man cave stays in the man cave".
I never knew anyone that did not like Tommy. He never met a stranger and would have a conversation with everyone he met. He was a good friend to all and a great Dad to his sons. He spent a lot of time with his grandchildren and great grandchildren teaching life's lessons and having fun.
As my husband he was loving, patient and caring. My happiness was his priority. I have a lot of memories of our 42 years of life together. We had a happy and strong relationship. Tommy and I would talk about anything no matter what. Even if we had different opinions, we respected each others views. We always spent a lot of time doing things together. I will miss him everyday even though I know he is in a better place now. He is not in pain any more, he is not suffering and his body is whole. Someday I will join him at his party in heaven.
I will forever miss you!
His loving wife,
Teresa