No one can change God’s will, yet the Almighty blesses us with precious memories that remain with us for a lifetime. May God grant eternal peace to the departed soul and give strength and courage to the family to bear this irreparable loss. The passing of such a loving and selfless soul is beyond words. Her simple life, values, and compassion will continue to live on through all of us. Flowers may wither with time, but Hanna Mami’s teachings and blessings will always remain a protective shadow around our lives.
I will always remember Hanna Mami for the countless sacrifices she made for me—especially her unwavering support for my education, right from my childhood. When I was a 7-month-old baby, my parents got divorced and I was with my mother since then. From that moment, both Hanna Mami and Harish Mama, living in the USA, helped me and my mother to cope with life during its most difficult times. I was treated just like their own son. From playgroup till my 12th standard, she took care of my school and tuition fees and ensured that my future was secure.
Even though she came from a different religious background, she seamlessly became part of our family with one simple belief—that God is one, and we are all His children. During one of the most challenging phases of our lives, when support was least expected, she stood firmly beside us since 1991.
I used to speak to her two or three times a month, just casual conversations filled with warmth. Today, the pain of her absence feels overwhelming. She always chose me whenever she needed anything from India, and I would happily say it was my pleasure. She especially enjoyed my cooking—snacks like poha chevda and chakri. Who will now ask me for Karela ghanvati? Who will ask me to send snacks in parcels? Her care and concern for me were constant, and she deeply valued my well-being.
She was so happy to hear that a little baby would be coming into my home this June. Though she will not be here to see my child, I am certain her blessings will always be with my family.
She would often tell me, “Don’t worry, Harshil. Neal is a good son. He is doing well and will always stand by you.” Her words were always reassuring—whenever I needed anything, she would say, “Just message Neal.” She always said, “Neal truly is a gifted son in our family.” Despite his professional commitments, his care has never been lacking. I have seen many wealthy people in life, but very few with such an open heart and willingness to give selflessly. That was the beauty of Hanna Mami’s spirit.
“Hars hiiilllll…”—the way she would call out my name loudly whenever I called her—is something I will miss forever.
My only prayer to God is that the departed soul may be freed from the cycle of birth and attain eternal life. Our deepest condolences to the bereaved family.
Om Shanti.
Harshil